Wedding night is something to which every married couple looks forward for. The fact, both want to make those magical moments memorable is certainly undeniable. However amidst the excitement and fantasies, the woman is nervous about it in case she is a virgin or less experienced while the man is equally under a lot of pressure with the thought of “what if things don’t work properly”? The notion that every couple has a startling sex on their wedding night simply sounds silly as it really is not necessary to have “Sex” on the first night of their wedding. What if you don’t wish to lose your virginity on your very first night together, you can still make it a lot happening, special and focus on physical intimacy.
Although making the most of the first night depends on the couple, here are a few tips to make your anxiety full Night a perfect one:
Make an ambiance check: It is the foremost step to make your first night a memorable one. Keep it dimly lit, and ensure the ambiance outside too is soothing and calm. Play some soft music and scatter rose petals on the bed so that the room smells good.
Pay attention to your dressing: take a warm shower and apply your favorite lotion to smell good. Pick a dress to wear which your spouse likes and would have him head over heels the minute he gazes you. Also, make sure you are confident enough in it. After all a confident lover is what every partner craves for.
Open up: Stop day dreaming and get into the reality by slowly starting off by communicating and sharing your nervousness and fear with each other. Talking about sex should no more be an embarrassing topic.
Pop in a surprise: Surprising your spouse with an unexpected gift could be a brilliant idea. It is sure to light up the spark of romance and create an intense groovy mood.
Try communicating: Once you both are under the comfort zone, try communicating with your eyes and flirting gradually. After all communication though eyes too is the key to taking ahead any relationship.
Start off sensuously: The next step would be to connect with each other emotionally. Thanking him and then cuddling along under a blanket is sure to take things ahead smoothly. Foreplay with a warm hug till you feel each other’s warmth and soft kisses on the sensitive areas will express your passion and romantic gestures in the right way to your partner.
A little adventure would do no harm: trying something now which you have always wanted to before can make your wedding night a fun one as you would be starting a new life together. Why not try a new phase of sex?
Do what pleases you: In the end it’s your wedding night, ignore everything and start making love after all it’s your wedding night and you want it to be fresh on your mind always.
© Small Wedding Planning 2018